You do not need your entire future figured out to date with intention. Start by knowing what matters to you and being honest about it. Attraction can start a connection; shared values and steady choices help you understand where it can go.
Three questions worth asking
- What kind of relationship am I looking for right now? Give yourself permission to answer honestly, rather than copying someone else’s timeline.
- Which values do I want my choices to reflect? Think about commitment, sex, marriage, family, and how you treat each other.
- Can we talk openly about expectations? Ask about what commitment means to each of you, without assuming you already agree.
Choosing to save sex for marriage, starting today, can be an intentional part of your plan. Your choices belong to you, and a caring partner will respect them.
A moment for you: What is one small choice you can take into this week?